This semester, Ole Miss freshman volleyball player Marielle Oestermeyer decided to quit the sport she had dedicated so much of her life to playing. Oestermeyer said couldn’t handle the the stressful schedule of being an athlete and a student.
“First semester was hectic,” said Oestermeyer.
Oestermeyer described leaving for an 8 a.m. class and then usually not returning to her room until 9 p.m. She would practice volleyball for six hours a day and spend each weekend playing in a tournament. The sport she once loved began to dominate her life.
“I never got any sleep, I wasn’t happy, and I cried a lot, which is kind of embarrassing to admit. I was pretty miserable,” Oestermeyer said.
Towards the end of the fall volleyball season, the Ole Miss Sports website published an article titled “Oestermeyer Looks To Lead Rebels Past No. 19 LSU”. The story focused on Oestermeyer’s leadership abilities, volleyball skills and work ethic. Although outwardly composed at the time, the talented setter was struggling.
“It was a long process and it took a long time to realize why I wanted to quit volleyball,” said Oestermeyer. “Life’s too short to be unhappy, and you only have so many years of college. I know it sounds selfish, but I mean if you’re not happy, there’s no point in doing it; and if you don’t love something anymore with the passion that you did before, it’s not worth it.”
Currently, the Ole Miss athletic department addresses the problem of student-athlete stress by offering academic support. The Fed-Ex Student-Athlete Academic Support Center provides “quality developmental and need-based programs to help student-athletes become independent and self-reliant learners.” This year, 118 Ole Miss student-athletes were named to the SEC Academic Honor Roll.
Oestermeyer’s former teammate Ashley Veach is one of Ole Miss’s scholar-athletes.
“I deal with my overwhelming schedule by using my time wisely and getting as much sleep as I can,” said Veach. “I try not to procrastinate.”
After quitting volleyball, Oestermeyer says her second semester as a freshman has been “nothing but happy.”
“I’ve been able to reach out and meet new people and go home a lot more. I feel more like I belong here at the University of Mississippi instead of like I’m doing a job,” said Oestermeyer.
Even though her college experience is much less stressful, Oestermeyer sometimes misses her teammates and the sport she has played since middle school.
“The hardest part of quitting volleyball,” said Oestermeyer, “was realizing that I’m never going to step on a court with five other individuals again, I’ll never be able to wear a jersey again, and I won’t be able to be proud and to want to win something so bad for my teammates.”